Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but dreams fulfilled is a tree of life.  Proverbs 13:12 .

My Family Refuge is about replenishing and restoring peace and hope in the family, one heart and one family at a time.  Whether you are a two parent Father and Mother family, single parent family, or a blended stepfamily, you can have a home where dreams are fulfilled, and the Tree of Life produces fruit that will last.

He makes All Things New


Whoever you are, wherever you are from, there is hope for your family.

Hebrews 6:18 says: So God has given both his promise and his oath.

These two things are unchangeable because it is impossible for God to lie.

Therefore, we who have fled to him for refuge can have great confidence
as we hold to the hope that lies before us. (New Living Translation).

Keep reading to find out some of the different tools available to you
that will bring hope and encouragement into your home today.


We will walk with you as you raise your family.

Today's family is under more pressure and stress, than ever. Pandemics, job loss, safety concerns, and many other issues in life, seem to keep building and building, causing stress in the home.   My Family Refuge  is a place where families can be refreshed and see hope and joy restored in their family.  We are not connected with any certain church or denomination, but we do believe in the  principles and power of God's word.  We offer tools and strategies for your family.  Click on each category to find out more.
1. Parent Coaching
2. Parenting Seminars
No matter what church you attend or even if you do not attend a church, the family coaching you receive here will replenish and restore your hope, and place you on the right road.

It's time for a change of heart.


Parents today often gravitate toward a behavior modification approach to parenting. But relying on rewards and punishment to get things done seldom changes the heart. Parents say, " If you clean your room you can go out and play," or "Finish your homework, then you can watch TV." The problem is that behavior modification appeals to the selfishness in kids. It basically says, "If you do what I say, you can have what you want." Children then learn to ask the wrong kinds of questions. Instead of asking " What's in it for me?" we want kids to ask the question, "What is the right thing to do?"   Whether you are co-parenting with your husband or wife, are a single parent, or a step parent, parent coaching for heart change will start the process of getting your children to do the right thing.  To find out more about Parent Coaching click here or download this free brochure. To sign up for the parent coaching  you can sign up by clicking here or you can contact us directly.  To find out more about how heart based parenting works download the free eBook "Change.  Helping any Child Change at any Age." created by the National Center for Biblical Parenting. 

Contact Details

PO Box 90724
Sioux Falls, SD 57109
Phone: 605-305-1720
Office Hours: 
Currently by appointment